Is it realistic expecting to meet a lady on CLM willing to relocate to Canada?

l am curious to know if many Chinese ladies would be willing to relocate to Canada ? Not just anywhere - like Toronto. Or when they indicate they will / may relocate, do they generally mean within China? The profile question is unclear. Maybe they are looking for a westerner but someone already working / teaching in China? lf they really would relocate to Canada, is there a common protocol that might be followed? lt likely is happening however l am specifically meaning when both live / work in the different counties - long distance relationships l believe is the correct term?

Hi, as a female member, i would prefer the foreigner in china cos the distant love is hard to make it practical. sometimes u may find both the girl and boy are chatting well on line but it is different in the face to face contact. Chinese girls like to marry foreigners cos they like the exotic culture or the way of making sex. for me, it is. But also there are successful stories with the distant lovers. However, at least, u must meet her face by face once after u had feeling with her. Good luck!

Could you come to China to live indefinitely????
The Chinese social structure is extreme closely related to family and filial duty - if you marry in China expect your in-laws to move in with you!!! Maybe even to Canada!
I would ask you how welcoming Canada would be to a Chinese lady as well? Seriously!!! I have had this discussion with friends who have married and travelled overseas with husbands. They talk of loneliness (husband away all day/language/difficulty meeting friends), isolation (no access to car/transport) and different expectations and 'deserted family' guilt/angst are rife.

Very true. However, this is something that not only Chinese women would experience: when I moved to the United States with my then German wife, ha ha ha, she had very similar trouble adjusting to the way of life in the United States. The complaints were very similar to what aussieghump describes: loneliness, lost in translation - sorry: traffic, missing friends and family, etc. The best thing is to plan at least 2 trips to her home country every year. Worked for me (the divorce happened for other reasons - we are still best friends, ha ha).

hi
i live in china since 3 years now, and i've decided to settle down there , at least untill retirment.
if i'm still single, it's because :
-) some women i meet were nor really clear on theyr objectives (some i didn't know if they likes me, my gold mastercard, or my shengen passport)
-) some were Traditional Chinese Women, Family Oriented : i will talk to you about the meaning, but off the record.. don't forget we are in 2010 now.
-) lot of single with one child, having high pressure to marry as fast as possible from parents and neighborns (and after 35yo they asks you to marry after 2 dates)

each time i met a woman i was wondering :
-) communication : best case : she speaks french. average she speaks good english... no chance : she doesn't speak a word except her village's dialect
-) social life : good : she has high education level and your parents or friends will enjoy her company. you can also have interesting conversation with her parents. no chance : she's only interested in topics your 6yo niece likes also...
-) employment : best : she can find a job without problems in your country .. no chance : her last occupation was KTVgirl

"Is it realistic expecting to meet a lady on CLM willing to relocate to Canada?"---I think it depends. For me, I love to relocate to either Canada or USA because I love the western cultures and I do not have any problem about English. Also, I was a foreign student in US for 12 years to finish several US academic degrees including my doctor professional degree. So I think if the lady has studied in western countries before, she will love to relocate. If she does not have any background about English language or western lifestyles, it will be difficult for her to adjust.

For me, I enjoy making friends with foreigners, I think frankly foreigners, foreigners dare to own ideas, as you can go to Canada to settle in, I think if I, I will agree, has been hoping to travel the world, rich their own culture, but for now I'm still a student, a year later, I will have my work, I hope to travel the world and my love.

I decided to come to China to meet my wife, mainly because it would have been almost impossible for her to come to the UK.
my answer to truecanadian1 is YES, many Chinese women would be happy to relocate to another Country, keep in mind, it is a very big step for them, and you would first need to find out if she would like it in your Country.
My wife, has one son and he supports himself, both her parents died many years ago.
so there is just the two of us to think about.
A good Chinese wife is like gold. she only wants to love and be loved. they are very loving,and caring, they certainly make a good wife.
love her, treat her with respect, and you will never regret it.

I have an experience in this, although I live in Indonesia. I met a girl at CLM, we have been going on for more than half a year, she has been here once at Chinese New Year and I have been to China few times to meet her including meeting her parents and grandparents and relatives. She doesn't like Jakarta, the city I live in, and I admit it's a messy country, but I was born here and my business is here so we're kind of stuck a little. She needs time before she can come here, but at least she's willing to try.

I think it really depends on the person. Some people like me, don't think twice about going to visit other countries and learning new things, but for some people it's not that easy. In the end, she will weigh the pros and cons to decide whether or not it's worth the sacrifice.

hehe funny ,if u love each others , distance is not a problem really !!

saying though, love also need sex. if long time not sex, that not nomal.

To Happyatlast,
Absolutely.
Thanks for saying what's in my mind.

To truecanadian1,
If your lady is well educated, loves you sincerely, she will do anything for both of you. Relocating to another country no doubt tells you how far she is willing to go for you. It's a big chalange in one's life, but a fine and brave woman would take it.
Good luck to us all.

Find your Miss Right then u will know u deal with this problem:)~ Yeah, u will look at her and say that it's us against the world!!! haha~~~

of course my friend,never show a gold credit card,,,,after months okay,not now!!,and yes 99.9 percent of chinese women you'll be able to date,will have a kid,of course,in china,a divorced woman can't almost even dream about getting married again,which for us westerners,its okay,we are more from the hearts than what the guy next door thinks,but you are lucky to live in china,I envy you,I live in vancouver(hongcouver) in canada,but you won't be able to even make a chinese girl smile to you,they are different people everywhere they live,on this site,I met a few friends,I can say it is the best site on the net,to meet real people.(don't forget a "magazine"looking chinese woman knows she is a real rare pearl who can have everything she wants and she will always move on with a richer or more beautiful one,buy my book when it will come out,,haha,bye